Posts tagged Regionals
“There are certain kinds of people that are purely driven. I can tell who they are simply by looking at them. I have faced so much criticism for my drive that at times it has alienated me from the majority: the people who are comfortable with second place, the people who hate against me because I am not. You know these kinds of people; they are the ones who fear winning, the jealous ones who envy and try to sabotage. They are the people who have been telling me I couldn’t win all my life. Many times my drive to succeed has put me on an island all by myself because no one understood me, or they chose to misunderstand me. They chose to portray me as being something that I was not. I have learned that it is OK for me to be me, and what being me entails. It means that I will not rest; I will not sleep, relax, relent or be satisfied until my goals have been met, the challenges answered and my doubters silenced. I will not give in to my foes; I won’t let down my teammates. I won’t stop inspiring those who look up to me or stop giving motivation to those who motivate me. I will not back off until I’m back on top, back in the place where they say I could never be again.”
believe | achieve
I’ve had these words tattooed on my wrists for three years now. It started out as a way to motivate myself - knowing that if I believe in myself, I will achieve the things I want. They’ve always been there; carefully placed so I always see them. A constant reminder that I am worth it.
I’ve never really been tested like I was these past five weeks.It’s something that I’ve taken for granted, without realizing it. After Regionals finished last year, I set my mind on “I want to finish in the top 10 after the Open,” but it was more a hope than it felt a tangible goal. Or at least how I recognized it at that moment when the words escaped my mind.
Fast forward through the 2013 Open, and I finished in 8th place in Canada West, achieving my “hope goal.” It took 13.1 for me to realize (and understand) that this was more than just a “hope”. That if I truly believed in myself, top 10 would be achievable.
What matters more to me is not what the final outcome numbers say, or where my name lies on the leaderboard (although, it is nice to see it where it is). What matters more to me is the lessons that I learned; that even four years into this, I still can feel like a naive and inexperienced athlete sometimes.
I learned what a true 100% capacity feels like - going out there and just throwing your heart on the floor for everybody to see. I learned that in failure there is always a lesson, but you need to choose to accept it and learn from it. I learned how to deal with failure in front of all of my clients - something I will admit that I feared the most. I learned about grace, and what makes second chances worthy.
And most importantly, I saw what it really means to believe in myself. That I’m capable of this just as they are; that I deserve to play too.
believe | achieve has always just been my “thing”. The biggest realization over the past five weeks was understanding that I finally put meaning to something that became apparent was just a concept.
And that’s what I love about what we do: growth. Not just as an athlete, in this moment, with this particular event; but as an individual. The barbell really does teach you a thing or two about yourself. You just have to let it.
“This my dear, is called GRACE!”
Every moment of struggle is worth it.
And the next five weeks are going to be a measure of that. No better time to prove it to myself than now.
“You need to lose a few times, need to lick your wounds and taste your own blood, need to sit in silence in the locker room of another lost season wondering what went wrong, and then you need to say, ‘Never again, not ever. I am not letting this happen again.”
You can deal with almost any “what”, when you have a more compelling “why”.
One of my clients at FUNCTION asked me last night, “How do you stay motivated?” It’s no doubt a feeling that we all experience at some point or another. And with no doubt, there are early mornings where I’d rather turn over in bed, than bear the cold and trudge to the gym.
When the times get tough, I just think of my “WHY”: Only completing 7 muscle-ups in the last workout of the 2012 Regionals. Failing rep after rep. How that moment made me feel. The disappointment in myself that resonated through me; the pressure to perform in front of my Coach, the pressure I put on myself to keep up with everyone else around me.
In that moment, I knew I wanted to come back next year with nothing able to keep me at the back of the pack.
That’s my “WHY”. That moment. Those feelings. How vivid it all is when I look at pictures like this. That’s what flashes through me when I feel I can’t pick up the bar, or row a little harder, or do just one more round.
What’s your “WHY”?
It’s been a little over a week since the Canada West Regionals, and my mind has finally finished riding the high from that weekend. 2013 is already started in my mind, and my plan is setting in stone as I type this. I couldn’t be more excited. #2013
I just wanted to say thank-you to all of my supporters over the past year of training, and those who continue to stand behind me and push me to find my limits. So many people around me have made some pretty big sacrifices for me, so for that I am forever grateful.
A big thank-you to all of my sponsors who helped fund my trip to the Regionals: Justin at Yorkton Plumbing & Heating, Jeff at Countryside Motors, Jason and his Hockey 1st Skills Academy, Laurie at LR Futures, the Yorkton Kinettes Club, and all of the other individual sponsors!
I can’t thank you all enough for my appreciation!
Focused for WOD 3.
I’ve had this empty blog post open for about three days now. I started to write things over and over, only to erase it each time. People around me keep asking me, “So, how was Regionals?” And I really don’t know what to say. It strikes me as odd, that I can’t quite come up with an answer, when this is something I’m so passionate/excited/livebreatheeatsleep about. But I think that’s because I’m still riding the high. That weekend was simply surreal. There is no better way to put it.
“Whenever I’d get to a point where all the training and the hours put in would come to a weekend for proof, I always went back to the notes I took post workout at my desk; the comments I’d post on .com; the food I’d prepare for days based on events; review the training I’ve done…to see in fact if I have deservedly put the time in and 100% committed to the goal - if you can honestly say that you’ve put it all towards what you really want, then there is no one, no one, that can take the experience from you, full effort = full victory.”
Yesterday I sent out a tweet asking how one overcomes their fears. Fear is a crazy thing. I thought I originally had such a strong feeling toward handling fear, as my fear mantra has always been:
Fear isn’t a good enough reason not to do something.
In this instance, my perspective on fear was different. Fear manifests itself in all kinds of different forms - it can be unfamiliar territory, or out of your comfort zone. Yesterday I looked at fear in the form of a 70 pound dumbbell; unfamiliar and terrifying.
In the end it came down to one thing: belief in oneself.
So what do you do when something scares you? Conquer it.